It is said that men love with their stomachs or women love with their ears. A bit comical, but not that far from it truths - we all really feel, express and perceive love and its manifestations differently.

What are the five love languages and how to use knowledge about them for the benefit of your relationship, advises relationship coach Kristīne Kreile/beasur.eu

To know about Dr. Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages ​​– it is valuable; it lets you look on your relationship a little bit from the outside, to see if you know how to show the other that you love, and - if the loved one knows us translate? Thus, we can not only introduce new breezes into the relationship, but also maintain them in a truly high-quality way, making them happy loved one in the way he longs to experience and avoiding unnecessary misunderstandings. Another bonus - familiarity loved one's love language, too it will be much easier to resolve conflicts.

Assessment

It is important for these people that the loved one regularly reminds them that they love and appreciate them. Verbal declarations of love are an integral part of everyday life. This the personality will appreciate if you also thank for everyday trifles, give compliments and appreciation not only personally, but also in front of children, family, friends. Negative comments and phrase compliments will be accepted by the lover heart more than anyone else.

Quality time spent together

A partner for whom this is especially important will appreciate undivided attention - this means truly together spend time on a walk, game night, playing sports, without automatically looking at your smart device or in parallel solving work matters over the phone. 15-20 minutes spent in discussions after a long working day will also be important. Listening, being next to him is very important for this person.

Works

This is a partner who will feel loved if he experiences care for himself, and also shows love himself by caring for to others. The one who feels love through actions will greatly appreciate it if in the evening, when he feels extremely tired, his beloved a person would offer to cook dinner for the family, even though it was theoretically his turn to do so tonight. These people have it is especially important that both partners do the housework.

Touches

Of course, touch is important for everyone, but there are some people who attach a very, very big role to it. people, to whom it is especially important to give and receive hugs, caresses and kisses from a loved one on a daily basis, we can also recognize in the company of strangers - they will not be shy to hug or put a hand on the shoulder.

Gifts

This language of love can in no way be confused with greed or excessive materialism. It's very simple - a gift, even a very small one, like a miniature chocolate bar, which will unexpectedly surprise in the coat pocket, for these will work for people as a confirmation that the loved one has especially thought about him, remembered and wanted to please.

Who better than you will be able to understand what makes you feel loved? However, if you are in doubt or just want to get to know yourself or your other half, here is the test recommended by Kristine, which will help you discover your love language: 5 LOVE LANGUAGES – TEST

Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA

Photo: NINA GORSHUNOVA

Visual content artist: KSENIJA BELCA-BESLER

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