Not only the young couples and wedding service providers, but also the guests, without whom the wedding would definitely be unimaginable, have started actively preparing for the wedding season. The most unimaginable and unpredictable things happen at wedding celebrations, and no guest certainly wants to be remembered for the wrong reasons, including scandals, excessive alcohol consumption or inappropriate behavior, so we offer TOP things to remember when going to a wedding.

Is a wedding the right place to get to know each other?

Undeniably, for all the relationship-free guests, weddings are a great place to meet potential soul mates. Often, new and wonderful couples are formed right at the wedding.

However - choosing the right "partner" is decisive for how this evening will turn out. The most unpleasant scenario would certainly be in cases where the potential candidate you watched came to the wedding with another person. If a large amount of alcohol is added to this situation, then there is a possibility that a scandal will be inevitable. Therefore, it is good to remember what is most important on this day, namely the new couple, and not to create awkward situations that could spoil the general atmosphere of the celebration.

Remember - the bride and groom are in the main roles

Wedding planners all over the world recommend one important thing, that is, when you come to a wedding, you should leave your emotional baggage behind the door, that is, it is neither the right place nor time to dwell on "how they are lucky, but I am not" or "how beautiful she is today, but I am not". such emotions can most often lead to excessive alcohol consumption, complaining to other guests, and therefore you steal the bride and groom's shine and attention, which is intended only for them on this day.

The wedding day is the right moment to rejoice from the heart for those who love.

1+1 not 4

When you receive an invitation with an indication for yourself and your significant other, you must find out whether the new couple expects your children to come to the wedding as well. If this is not mentioned in the invitation, you should ask and not automatically accept it as fact.

More and more often, couples choose to invite their guests to entrust their younger children to grandparents or nannies and to come to the wedding as a couple in order to be able to relax and fully enjoy the festive atmosphere.

Follows the requests of the young couple

1. Ignoring the invitation of the new couple is definitely not a good style.

   If the bride and groom want the guests not to use their mobile devices to take photos or videos at their wedding, then this request should be taken into account. The same applies to publishing photos on social media.

2. Another thing where guests often ignore the couple's requests is clothing. If the couple wants their wedding guests to be dressed in pastel colors, then the worst thing you could do is to arrive in a bright red or black dress. The choice of wedding guest attire also shows their respect for the particular young couple. That is why ladies should also avoid overly revealing dresses - wedding planners all over the world admit that looking sexy is not a crime, but too big a neckline can make not only the new couple, but also other wedding guests feel awkward.

Do not become "their guest"

You definitely don't want to be remembered after the wedding as "the guest" who drank too much. Weddings, of course, are almost unimaginable without alcoholic beverages, but moderation is a key word that should not be forgotten.

If you drink wine, it is important to remember to drink water as well, regularly move your feet on the dance floor, do not get carried away with mixing different alcoholic beverages, and also be aware of the limits of your abilities, so as not to become "that guest" and live the next day without feeling ashamed.

If you have nothing good to say, don't say anything

Weddings are definitely the place where criticism (even if it is constructive) has no place. Couples usually spend a lot of time planning their wedding and creating a beautiful celebration not only for themselves but also for their guests, so you should avoid sharing your critical observations about the wedding dress, hairdo, decorations or meal with other guests or the new couple themselves on the wedding day or afterwards.

Say - good or keep quiet.

Author of the article: LIENE PÄLĆA