Intimacy is a broad concept that includes not only sex and physical touches. It is a deep closeness, a real being together and an interest in each other. A caress in passing, a hearing without condemnation, delving into the other's true nature, feelings and desires. Allowing to be - both for yourself and for your loved one. Exactly about this is also tantric sex - acceptance and respect of one's sexuality and that of the partner, not only the other enjoyment, but also sensual perception of life. The ability to be here and now.

Tantric sex - what is it?

Our whole body is sensual and erotically submissive, not just certain areas. But it is given to experience it if let go On the other hand, the ability to let go lies within ourselves. It does not arise from the virtuosity of the partner. Feel the sensation of your body and even the sensualism of the mind - each of us and only ourselves is responsible for that, which in turn depends on how much consciously able to be, how present and self-loving. By introducing tantra into your relationship, the quality of sexual relations improves, interest in each other and intimacy increases being together. There is no goal in tantric sex, the essence is to be able to be in the process itself and enjoy it, to feel not only bodily, but to experience a spiritual fusion, a sense of true intimacy and love.

Tantra is an ancient practice in which sexuality is exalted valued and considered one of the most powerful ways of spiritual education. Sexual energy is life energy, creative and power energy, our great ally to feel alive, full of inspiration and energy, able to enjoy and rejoice in all other areas of life. It is even believed that it is impossible to solve other lives areas until the sexual side is sorted. this energy is like a driving force. To introduce tantric sex into a relationship means to be in this state of power and pleasure, to live life to the fullest. This means that tantric sex changes consciousness.

Tantric sex - it is not quick and sloppy. It is a deep connection with your loved one, a journey of taking time, taking time attention as you feel the magical energy that flows when the two of you meet. Because meeting in sexual intimacy is not alone a physical act, it is the creation of energy. Tantra practices methods that allow a man to prolong the time until sunset for the climax of understanding, therefore it is a real gift for all women who want to prolong the pleasure, after this pleasure investing energy in relationships. Because there is no goal here, the event is the process itself.

In sexual intimacy, just like in any other area of our life, - sometimes it can be deceptive that I will be happy when I will have a dream job, I will be happy when I have my own house, I will be happy when I have my other half, sex is successful, if orgasm is reached, - and the process itself remains somewhere in the background. But the process is nothing but life itself! All salt is in process. And this is an extremely beautiful process in which we get to know each other loved ones more and more, heighten our senses.

Would you recognize your loved one's skin with your eyes closed just by touching it?

In the sense of tantric sex, whining about visual imperfections and other nonsense is also unacceptable. We with each other we share experiences, support, listen, learn from each other, explore what brings joy, recognize emotions and mood. We are together. Practitioners of tantric sex emphasize that it is a meeting between two mature, mature people, who fully accept each other and are not afraid to make mistakes, know how to laugh together, because mistakes are also a process and a path ingredient.

Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA

Photo: OH KTISTINKA , LIBKOS

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