The most important people in our lives are planned at the soul level, long before the bodies meet each other. / Paulo Coelho

Relationships are one of the most beautiful miracles we experience. Experience and mutual interaction through which we grow, develop and always, always gain something to take with us on the further path of life. But relationships tend to be various. Passionate and peaceful. Complex and easy. The ones we want to give up and the ones we can't live without we don't want to imagine our lives. Karmic relationships , soul mates and twin flames - what are these relationships and how are they different?

Karmic relationship

We tend to give the word karma a negative connotation. However, this is not quite right. Karma is not something that would be to suffer for a lifetime or to be carried along as a heavy burden - karma must be realized by seeing what are the things with which we have to work. The task is to notice - what is it that annoys me in a relationship, what I put on, what I cannot accept - it is precisely these issues that must be resolved together and through the relationship with the other party. On a spiritual level, this means that You have already worked this out with this person in a previous life or even in several of them.

Then why not look at it positively - you have the opportunity to finally fix what you have done!

When the same problematic situation repeats itself in a relationship, it is a clear indication that it is necessary to dig deeper - something you do the same and the same thing, which leads to the same result. Stopping, observing, listening to yourself, looking at the situation, my emotions and reaction from the outside, and making a decision - from now on I will act differently, - we begin to resolve the situation and the karmic entanglement.

Everyone should look at their relationships individually, taking into account their own intuition - sometimes, in order to complete karma, it is enough to stop resolving disagreements, instead - accept the other half exactly as it is and forgive from the heart. Forgive not only in words, but truly - in feelings. However, sometimes you have to work deeper.

Our body is given only one life. However, for a soul living in a body, this is neither the first nor the last life, but only one of many beautiful and valuable experiences. And in each of these lives or experiences, we come to learn a lesson. If you have a karmic relationship with your loved one, this does not mean that you should be sad about this circumstance or consider that you are not close enough to each other. The good news about karmic relationships that remind you not to run away from them - in the present during this time, we learn our lessons or life tasks at an accelerated pace, thus freeing ourselves from the long karmas accumulated over time. We can and do accomplish in a few years what used to take several life. That is why we tend to experience intense, even difficult relationships, through which we can come out as if from a beautiful butterfly has emerged from the cocoon. If we decide to leave this relationship without completing the task or without learning lesson, let's step into the same shoes one more time - in a different relationship with exactly the same problems. Karma love, acceptance and forgiveness give tremendous strength to completion. Whether the other person will change is his choice. And often, directly feeling the change in your attitude, the other half also changes, and the relationship with the same person seems to enter in a completely new and different bed. That's where beauty comes from - going through the fire together, both changing, growing and growing evolving to experience a truly beautiful togetherness afterwards.

Soul mates

When creating a partnership, we long to meet our soul mate, with whom we feel on the same page in different aspects of life. If with a karmic partner you feel that there are aspects in which there is a feeling of inhibition or resistance, and a lot which does not come easily, but with great effort, then the relationship with the soul mate is harmonious. Encountering souls relative, the feeling and belief that it is a close soul cannot be confused, although even in karmic relationships we experience love, respect, joy and very pleasant moments. If you doubt whether your relationship is with souls relative or karmic, then the soul mate has not yet been met. It often happens that we meet a person for the first time, but the feeling is that we have known each other for a long time. Meeting with a soulmate happens completely unexpectedly and suddenly and it can be experienced even when we don't think about building relationships at all. When you meet your soulmate, time and external circumstances lose their importance - complete confidence and intuitive knowledge that everything is right and as it should take over must be The connection we feel with our loved one is incomparable to any other partnership we have experienced. With soul mates are just good, you finally feel like you can be yourself - real, free and authentic, without any ego-imposed conditions.

A feeling of déjà vu tends to flare up in relationships with a soul mate - and why not if you have already met each other and have experienced. Another easy-to-see sign is that you understand half a word and can finish each other's sentences to also technically you have only recently met.

Spiritual relationship is a healing, tantric giving of self to a loved one, not based on toxic passion relationship. Unlike karmic relationships, in which about various "flaws" and for "imperfections" there are reproaches and requests to change, soul mates each other's shortcomings fall in love
However, in order to experience the miracle of meeting your soulmate, you have to work with yourself - truly you have to love and love yourself, you have to know and accept yourself. A person who loves himself radiates love. Love attracts love like a magnet.

Twin Flames

What are twin flames? And is it possible to feel even closer than with a soul mate? Turns out it is! If you have met it - you have experienced one of the most intangible miracles that exist, being here on earth. When you meet your twin flame, intense soul development begins, coming to our true core - remembering who and what we really are. Unlike soulmate relationships, although twin flames are even closer in the soul context, relationships are not so harmonious - they go through undulating curves until they reach harmony.

In the spiritual context, twin flames are one soul that has split into two energetically identical and full-fledged in souls. The other side does not always incarnate on earth. If you are both incarnated, then the relationship happens when you meet to be tense and intense, mirroring each other's flaws to be processed, simultaneously confidently feeling that you have come home and have been waiting for this very person all your life. Twin flames often encounter being in other relationships when we are seemingly unavailable. In addition, a twin flame may have a characteristic, a habit or circumstances which in any other relationship would be a strong impediment. But you don't take this twin flame imperfection into account.

Twin flames may represent different cultures and religions, yet they share an incredible sense of unity. Initially one of the flames may be frightened by this connection and attraction and may shy away from the relationship. It may even take several years until you come together in a “real” relationship. You may break up countless times, but you will be reunited by force connected back. The connection is so deep that a man and a woman who are twin flames feel each other's physical feelings and emotions, even without being physically next to each other, even without being physically close to each other without contact. From the outside, your relationship may look like an incomprehensible drama with a lot of passion and heartache. However, you know and feel that the lessons of such spectrum, speed and power as in this relationship, you you won't experience anywhere else. Twin flames can only be reunited when each part of the soul has become itself complete in itself.

Being together in a couple relationship and in unconditional love, you not only feel, but actually become more powerful and powerful like ever before.

Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA

Photo: ERIKA BROOKE

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