Wedding is a story about you! We, the LĪGAVĀM creative team, as well as every wedding professional keep reminding you of this! In organizing a wedding, will be ready with tips and instructions almost everyone participates, especially 's mother-in-law and 's mother-in-law tend to be particularly enthusiastic, grandmothers, grandfathers...
However, the initially mentioned fact is like a magic key to the question - what to do with a million tips from the outside and others wishes for what should look like for our wedding.

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Is it possible to realize your dream wedding which do not meet the expectations of your parents and be able to enjoy them forever percent? Of course! A wedding is a unique event. Something you are not going to experience again in your life. Celebrate a wedding exactly the way YOU want them is especially important. We all have desires, and it is completely normal and natural, that they tend to differ. That's why life is interesting! However, it is you two who are getting married, no one else. For everyone else have been given or will be given in the future their opportunities to realize their dream wedding. And just as it is not correct and it is healthy to expect that children will realize their parents' unfulfilled dreams of a career as a doctor or an athlete, for no one a grown child who is about to steer into the harbor of marriage does not have to take responsibility for his parents' wedding dreams. Ours desires are our responsibility. Parents' wishes - it is their own responsibility and decisions, what to do with these wishes.
A wedding is a joyful event! Weddings are definitely not suitable for quarrels and disagreements. Important for everyone for the parties involved to remember and stick to it.

If parents try to impose their will or pretend we are sorry if it doesn't work out, it spoils the mood for everyone, especially you, the new couple. It is a situation no one wants to experience. However, it is possible to get out of this unpleasant situation wisely and peacefully. Offer parents a specific task! Make them feel appreciated and needed! Thus you will get several bunnies with one shot - the parents will feel grateful and pleased, as well as the newfound responsibility on the task to be done will distract attention from too much interference in your plans and will direct the otherwise wasted energy to the desired and in a positive direction.

When organizing a wedding, we tend to be so engrossed in the process, we want to control and know everything so much that the end in the end, we can burn out and be simply... tired on the wedding day. Therefore, transferring a couple of jobs into the hands of parents will be real benefit! Some of the responsibilities will be lifted from your shoulders and you will have more time for yourself. And you don't need to rush to find with which ones other duties to fill this vacant place! We recommend that you dedicate it to relaxation . A rested person is a happy person.
A relaxed person is present and able to enjoy!

Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA
Photo: JĀNIS DEINATS, ARTIS SUPE