Becoming a couple's guide is not only a great honor, but also a certain responsibility. One is expected to will take care of everything - from A to Z, but from some others, they will provide the most beautiful and unexpected surprises for the couple on their wedding day. Whatever the involvement of the ushers on the wedding day, the new couple expects the best possible return. That is why, even if the conductors are not entrusted to participate in the work of organizing the wedding, surprises and others the planning of details should not be left to the last minute.

5 tips for presenters to help prepare for the big event

1. It's not your wedding, but the wedding of the new couple

The wedding of the young couple should not become a place where presenters express their own unfulfilled fantasies about the perfect wedding day. Whatever program you decide to prepare, it must be suitable for the bride and groom personalities.



For example, if you really like horses, but the bride does not have the closest relationship with animals, then the worst thing that could be done is to experiment on the day of the wedding in arranging for the new couple ride horses.



2. Do your homework

Most likely, if the couple invited you to be the conductor, then you are in a close relationship with each other. In the best case you know both the bride and the groom equally well, but sometimes there are situations when closer the relationship is with one of the couple. In such cases, carriers should do their homework and find out ahead of time everything possible for the other person. This is necessary to avoid unpredictable situations, e.g. if the bride is terrified of water, but you have prepared a romantic outing for the couple without knowing it a boat.



The bride and groom should feel as good as possible on their wedding day, so it probably won't be the right day to overcome your biggest fear or step outside your comfort zone.

3. Wedding stop

One of the most important tasks of conductors is to take care of special and warm surprises. Most often they are arranged during the wedding photo session, when the conductors choose and set up a special wedding stop. Very important the prerequisite when choosing a wedding stop is not to clutter it with many activities.



This should be a time for the new couple to relax before the party part of the evening, so more than two activities should not be included. Also, when planning the wedding photo session route and the location of the stop, you should consult the couple's wedding photographer - often they have great ideas. The photographer will also do the best estimate the distances from one location to another and how much time the total trip, inclusive photo shoot, could take.



Wedding organizer Kristīne Stazda / GoldFish indicates that wedding stops are very different:

"It can also be a very humble place in appearance, but with the breath of history or, for example, a sacred tree, about which it is said that by hugging it or sitting next to it, the young couple can gain additional strength.



Still one of the TOP wedding stops is a bridge or bridge on which to perform various rituals or simply enjoy time in each other's company, inviting a waiter over and setting a particularly romantic snack table. The belief says that the bridge must be renovated, restored or otherwise "walkable", because it has symbolic meaning - it is a bridge to the future life of the young couple, so it must be stable, not invaded or broken," so Kristīne.



4. Schedule time for a couple's dual solitude

Ushers are the closest people to the couple on the wedding day, so they should also be the ones who have to make sure that the couple has time is also set aside for double solitude. This does not mean moments only for wedding photo sessions and after the ceremony outing during, but also during the evening celebrations.



You can give the couple a 20-minute romantic time together where they can disappear from everyone before mating guests and enjoy each other's company. The couple will be very grateful to you for this even if before that for they will not have even imagined such an option.



5. To be honest

Finally, every conductor should also be aware of his own abilities and capabilities. Conductors must be present honest with themselves and the new couple, so that the wedding day turns out to be great, without any unpleasant surprises.

If a couple asks you to host the evening's celebration, but you are well aware that it is not your talent, then don't be shy to tell the couple. Being a carrier is a privilege, not a heavy burden, so this the process should be enjoyed.

PHOTO: CLYDE LARGE PANTS , JURGIS RICKWEILIS , LINDA LAUA

Author of the article: LIENE PÄLĆA