The couple is like a single entity. A microworld with its own rules, habits, dear and important things and feelings. However, each pair is made up of two individuals. The groom and the bride - these are two personalities whose opinion on holding a wedding can to differ. The fact that disagreements arise in the wedding process is disturbing, but completely natural and solvable. One of you you may want to invite a large group of relatives to the wedding, because it has always been the wedding of a loved one vision and a vision of a real celebration, while the other dreams of having a elopement wedding on a tropical island just the two of them. But the decision common must be accepted.

Tips for arriving at a common wedding vision:

●  Forget about hosting a wedding for a moment. Spend time with each other, listening not only to what your loved one says, but in feelings and mood. Remember why you are together in the first place and why you are going to get married - because each other love, respect and want to enjoy each other's presence. Go on dates ! Also a wedding the handling process should be pleasant;

●  Host a wedding concept planning evening in a romantic setting, sharing your wedding vision and selecting common denominators. Ask each other and yourself probing questions to understand exactly what you have in your wedding the most important thing - family warmth, season, celebration place in nature or in an elegant restaurant, atmosphere like crazy at a party or an intimate and private vibe...?

● Imagine your wedding day as a movie - how do you feel, what do you see, hear? Share your wedding movie with each other!

● Both write 3-4 things without which you cannot imagine your wedding;

●  To create a unified wedding vision, ask each other leading questions:

• how and where did we meet?
• is there a special event, hobby, book, movie, song, image, moment that is special in our relationship significant and symbolic? This can be the starting point on which to build a wedding concept ;
• our favorite season or important date ,
• what do we like to do together?

●  Remember that there are no frames or conditions within which a wedding should be contained. A good compromise can be the wedding style and the combination of ideas into one original and creative wedding story. As planning continues, what fits into it will crystallize and what not;

● The smartest thing to do if you get lost in your wedding idea is to involve the wedding in the process hosting professionals ;

●  Divide the wedding tasks ! Let the further process of organizing the wedding be harmoniously, divide the tasks of organizing the wedding between you so that everyone does what they like and do best. For other jobs, find other executors from service providers or friends and relatives.

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Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA

Photo: IEVA ANDRUPE , NICOLE KIRSHER PHOTOGRAPHY

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