A wedding is a story about both of you, so it is only natural that both the groom and the bride take part in the wedding ceremony. Wedding tasks are so different! How to divide responsibilities?

If both of the couple are ready to be fully involved in organizing the wedding, the distribution of wedding tasks is actually simple - the main starting point is the future wife and husband's talents and things they like and are good at doing the best. Even if you entrust the organization of the wedding to a professional wedding in the hands of organizers or wedding organizers, there are quite a lot of wedding tasks to divide among themselves and those that to do together. By working together and involving both of you, you create your own wedding story, you are in a co-creation process in which something very, very beautiful. It's a valuable investment in a relationship and a testament to how much you care about each other.

How to divide the responsibilities of organizing a wedding?

• Create a wedding to-do list together. A careful plan is required to accomplish this, however you have to start with the big tasks - ceremony and choosing the place of celebration , wedding concept development (a big wedding with a grand party, an intimate wedding in the closest circle, an elopement wedding just for yourself, etc.). Convenient and transparent planning you can plan your wedding from a-z using the LĪGAVĀM wedding planner, which will help both in developing the wedding concept and remind you for every little nuance of wedding tasks. Because it's so easy to miss without knowing!

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• You will benefit greatly by hiring a wedding planner for your wedding. A professional knows everything the nuances of organizing a wedding, making your tasks easier and giving advice where necessary. Even if you undertake to organize the wedding entirely yourself, it is important not to overload yourself, so that you leave room for the joy of the holiday instead dividing certain duties among relatives and friends.

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• When the big tasks of the wedding are clear, it's time to divide who will be mainly responsible for what. Of course, there are many things to do together, such as making the guest list , choosing the ceremony location , visiting the locations in person to feel which of them appeals. But the further communication with the chosen place can be undertaken by one of you.

Distribute the tasks so that everyone gets the tasks they like best. Someone may like to communicate more, while someone else - perform practical tasks such as choosing, looking at and feeling candles , napkins or rental furniture.

• It should be ensured that both of you are equally involved , and a situation does not arise that with the wedding only one of the couple is employed. This will lead to nothing good, only bitterness and disagreements.

• A wedding is a romantic event, however, technical matters should also be taken care of when organizing it , in which rather like a fish in water the groom will feel - that is, for example, the supply of a sound and light system or an electrical generator. The same refers to the transportation of heavy objects and other tasks where greater physical strength is required.

• When dividing wedding tasks, it is important not to impose your will on the other. For example, if the bride wants to herself create wedding invitations , then it will be extremely emotionally beautiful creation process, but no matter how much you want the groom's involvement in it, you should not force him if he does not want to do this. The groom will happily take on other jobs.

Let the whole process be accompanied by joy, ease and enjoyment of the process!

Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA

Photo: ARTIS SUPE , MIKS ŠELS , LIVA SLOKA

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