Ilze and Oskars celebrated their wedding in both exotic Cyprus and Latvia this autumn. Although initially both had decided to organize a wedding only for themselves, without the presence of their closest people, but now both are glad that this plan of theirs failed. "In the end, as a couple, we were able to share our beautiful event with the people closest to us, because our wedding was like a fragment from a movie. The guests who were with us felt as touched as we were," remembers Ilze.
The couple decided that they will get married abroad, but will officially formalize their relationship in Latvia. "We decided that Cyprus would be the right place for the wedding, because it is the land of wine and love, where beauty is born from the foam of the sea. It was not for nothing that the gods chose this island as the birthplace of Aphrodite, or the goddess of love and beauty. Since we decided to hold the wedding in another country, in order to make the planning process easier for ourselves, we decided that we would hire wedding organizers.
The vision of a specific wedding location, sunset wedding and everything else related to wedding planning slowly emerged," says the bride. "The wedding ceremony had both touching words about love and family, a spark of humor, and music chosen by us. There were rings and our vows to each other, champagne and cake enjoyment, and it all happened at sunset. We truly felt like characters from romantic movies.
The guests were touched and thrilled by the feeling of beauty and happiness that the sunset and our promises of love gave to each other. There were also tears of emotion. The whole wedding ceremony took place in a free and positive atmosphere, everyone was excited," the couple remembers.
Ilze had chosen an unconventional wedding dress for her wedding. "I have never dreamed of a white wedding dress. I am a mature enough person to break the stereotypes that a wedding dress should be white. In my opinion, a wedding dress should be one in which the bride herself feels great.
Historical evidence also shows that the colors of wedding dresses were different - red, black, blue. Since I knew that our wedding location would be white rocks, I wanted a contrast to the white, so I ended up with the dark blue color. It is the favorite color of both my husband and me. The dress had to be light, flowing and flirty, so I came up with the design for the dress myself. I accessorized the dress with festive white accessories, but my mother made the hairpin," says Ilze.
Ilze and Oskars advise other couples not to be afraid to dare to fulfill their dreams. "I have met couples who are no longer young and therefore decide to get married only as a couple or with the closest witnesses. But the fact that you are no longer young does not mean that you cannot celebrate life and such a beautiful event as a wedding.
Mature couples are more responsible for their decisions and make their own decisions, no matter how bold they are. They don't have to be pampered by anyone because they are financially responsible themselves. It is important for the couple to understand what vision they both have for the wedding, the interests that both want, it is necessary to agree on a common concept. The couple should not rush, they should understand what they want. And it doesn't matter what others think or what other people's weddings have been like, but you have to realize your own dreams," advises Ilze and Oskars.