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THE ENEAGRAM IN RELATIONSHIPS: THE NINTH TYPE

One of the most powerful tools for personal growth, the Enneagram , is a personality typology that divides nine personality types or nine faces of the soul. They are nine different ways of feeling, thinking and acting.

Let's get to know the ninth personality type of the Enneagram - the Mediator!

Ninth Enneagram Type – Mediator

The ninth type of the Enneagram Mediator (Mediator, Conciliator) is balanced, calm and harmonious, avoids conflicts, because you want to feel comfortable yourself and not to harm others with your opinion. Can see the whole side opinions, listen and really listen, that's why they are called Mediators. The mediator is considered to be the calmest of the types, it pays a lot of attention to how others feel. Believes that opinions can be different, accept this diversity and is convinced that everyone has the right to express themselves.

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Since Mediators do not like conflicts, they are convinced that any disagreements can be resolved peacefully. The ninth take responsibility for the consequences of their actions more easily than other Enneagram personality types.

Nines can easily lose themselves by paying too much attention to the needs and interests of others.

Nines must learn to find out their own desires and needs, as well as make choices. Own! Nines tend to be so to adapt to fellow human beings, to forget about their own wishes - so that others are well, so that there is only peace at home.

Since ninths really do not want to get angry and conflict, they must learn to notice their anger and understand that it is signal - others do not respect my opinion. It should be realized that conflicts are a part of life, they also have their place in life and avoiding arguments, smoothing over disagreements without thinking about yourself, at some point can backfire devastatingly...

Nines must awaken themselves and see themselves. There is no point in being shy or insecure - you have to fight sometime for your place, you have to take a risk and change the usual pattern of behavior.

In relation to the ninth type of the Enneagram

You appreciate the infinite sense of peace he creates and the fact that your loved one supports you in everything you do. The ninth listens, respects and does not fight against your opinion, but allows you to express yourself freely.

How often people experience in relationships that must not share their true opinion and be what they they are – free. The opportunity to be yourself, an authentic personality in a relationship, tends to be one of the most valued values, and with the ninth it is possible to feel exactly like this!

Nines know how to make their partner happy.

Averages are extremely empathetic and feel their partner's emotions almost with their body, even better than their own. Desires soulfully merge with the beloved. In the later stages of the relationship, there may be a dislike for the slowness and indecisiveness of the ninth. It seems that there is no opinion and the ninth so allows itself to flow. Until he learned to notice it himself and start doing something about it.