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THE ENEAGRAM IN RELATIONSHIPS: THIRD AND FOURTH TYPES

One of the most powerful tools for personal development, the Enneagram is a personality typology that divides nine personality types or nine faces of the soul. They are nine different ways of feeling, thinking and acting.

Let's get to know the third and the fourth enneagram personality type – Achiever and An individualist!

Third Enneagram Type – Achiever

Self-confident, ambitious, energetic, charming and motivated careerist who focuses on achievements and acquiring the image of a successful person. Able to adapt well to both situations and people. Achievers identify with their own work and tends to take on more responsibilities than there is time to complete them. Works energetically and is successful in almost everything takes on

The evaluation and appreciation of others is important.

The third must learn to remember their essence and to sometimes put the countless responsibilities aside, devoting undivided time to themselves care and rest. To think about what is really important in my life and not be so influenced by the judgments of others. Realize that love is not earned by achievements or position. Often in a career run, the Achiever pulls in a mask that you believe in, so you have to learn to listen to your true feelings.

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In relations with a representative of the third type you will experience a beautiful and thoughtful dating period, you will fall in love with his energy and ability to deal with anyone a challenge. However, in real life, you realize that you are with a workaholic who devotes so much attention and time for work, that the loved one or family comes to the background. To attract a partner, the third type pays a lot of attention for his image. There is a strong desire for intimacy, but at the same time a fear of deep emotional connection.

Fourth Enneagram Type – Individualist

An individualist is a romantic, creative and artistically gifted type with a world of intense feelings. Your identity based on the belief that it is very different from others. Feels different from others, therefore tends to feel lonely, makes friends with melancholy and drama. In the eyes of others, feelings tend to escalate, they long for a deeply felt relationship experience, but avoids those that he does not think are unique or special. He doesn't know how to really appreciate what he already has, instead he longs for it after something else, sometimes far and unattainable.

Importance is given to the depth of feelings, therefore it does not tolerate facile lightness.

Fourths must learn to enjoy simple, everyday things and accept ordinary , as well as not to dream of what is "missing", instead focus on the positive here and now. You have to learn to listen and get into others, no only in his world of feelings. In order not to torment yourself with sadness, it is better to devote time to physical activities and helping to others.

In a relationship with a representative of the fourth type , you can experience depressive stages and emotions of a loved one in bursts. An individualist wants the seemingly impossible - then pushes you away, wanting to isolate himself, then wants to hold you again in your vicinity. This type has talents and extraordinary abilities that created a deep interest in you. Most likely you appealed to by its unique outlook on life and surprising sensitivity, because the Individualist is truly able to express the psychologist's talent. Sensual and seductive type, who, driven by stormy emotions, easily falls into the trap of delusion.