In matters of women's sexual health and pleasure, it's hard to imagine a more widely discussed topic than the G spot. Some think that it does not exist, others are convinced of its existence. Some women claim that they can experience orgasm only thanks to the G-spot, others have not experienced anything like that. Health education does not talk about this mythical area, but over the years it has become clear that it really exists, but perhaps we have not fully understood it until now.

It's no secret that orgasm is a wonderful experience that can help reduce stress, enjoy a sweeter sleep, even relieve pain and provide other benefits, but most importantly - pleasure. Research shows that only 18-30% of women can experience this climax simply by having sex and not using additional stimulation with hands or toys. The so-called vaginal orgasm does not occur often, but this does not mean that it is impossible. In addition, getting to know your body and discovering new erogenous zones is worth it in any case!

There are opinions that the G-spot is the key to this peak of pleasure, but what exactly is it? One of the first to describe the G point in the medical literature was the German doctor and scientist Ernst Gräfenberg, from whose surname it takes its name. However, the wider public learned about it relatively recently, in the 1980s, when professor, sexologist Beverly Whipple, who has devoted several books to the G-spot and the orgasm phenomenon, began to actively talk about it. She was the one who noticed that an inviting "come here" movement made inside the vagina evokes a special physical reaction in women.

More than a point

The most important thing to know about the G point is that it is not one specific point that can be found on a woman's body map, like an ovary or a thyroid gland. Research focused on finding the magic point has ended without results! The G-spot should be more accurately called the G-zone, because in fact this sensitive area is the invisible part of the clitoris. On the other hand, the clitoris is much bigger than we are used to thinking about it. The little pleasure pot we can touch from the outside is just the tip of the iceberg, and the legs of the clitoris, which are stimulated from the inside, are much longer. The location of the G-zone depends on a woman's individual anatomy, but if it's touched and stimulated, for some women this stimulation can really be a different kind of sensation, allowing for vaginal orgasm and ejaculation (yes, ladies can experience this too!).

Pleasant quests

You can indulge yourself in the search for the G zone both alone, allowing yourself to discover yourself unhindered, and with a responsive and interested partner. In both cases, it is essential to relax, focus more on the process than the result, and touch yourself only in ways that bring you pleasant feelings. It is during arousal that it will be easier to feel this special area, which is located on the front wall of the vagina on the navel side.

During solo play, you can insert one or two lubricated fingers into the vagina and make a "reach here" movement with your palm up. The G-zone can be recognized by feeling a distinct relief with the fingertips, which is sometimes compared to the peel of an orange, and a particularly expressive sensation. Take your time, trust yourself and remember that masturbation is a completely natural process - part of the relationship with both yourself and your partner! Only by getting to know your body and the touches that make you feel good, it is possible to more successfully convey this information, which is so useful in intimate life, to your loved one.

To understand the anatomy of female pleasure and get to know yourself even better, it is worth reading the popular book «Love the way you are. Surprising about a woman's sexual well-being", as well as to attend master class "Anatomy of pleasure or the ABC of great sex" dedicated to this topic, which will be conducted by "SexyStyle" expert, doula Eva Gulbe, on February 15 in Riga.

The most suitable toys

Eva Gulbe reminds that, depending on the individual anatomy, it is not always physically easy to reach the G zone by one's own strength. Therefore, for this purpose, you can additionally use distinctly concave adult toys designed for just such stimulation, for example, the women's favorite multifunctional vibrator « Fun Factory Miss Bi », the more wallet-friendly, tasteful model of «You2Toys» « O Peachy! » or « We-Vibe Nova 2 » with an adjustable bending angle and the possibility of connecting it to a smart device for a wider range of sensations. On the other hand, if a partner comes to help in the search for the G zone, it will be more comfortable for both of you if you choose a position in which the lady lies on her stomach with pillows placed under her hips or a positioning pad specially designed for this purpose.

Allow yourself to experiment

As with other erogenous zones, stimulation of the G-zone will produce different sensations for each. Not everyone feels something special and not everyone enjoys it, and that's only natural because there are so many different ways to get it. After all, there is no one right way to orgasm! However, if you have discovered that this is truly your sweet spot, you can continue to experiment and explore new horizons. During sex, the G-zone will be especially stimulated, for example, in the doggy and horsewoman position, which allows you to control the rhythm and angle. In addition, creams and gels specially designed for the G zone have also been created for an additional lubricant, which is indispensable in every moment of passion. On the other hand, when it seems that everything has already been tried, the legendary « Womanizer » continues to come up with innovative solutions. The air flow technology created by it in the latest model « OG » in different intensities stimulates not only from the outside, but also from the inside.

While brands are constantly looking for new ways to revolutionize the world of female pleasure, take your time, give yourself time and find what "works" for you! Knowing your body and sexual taste is a big step towards a pleasurable, pleasant and safe intimate life.

Article author: SexyStyle