Enjoy, experience, feel - all these verbs perfectly describe how to be a bride. However, the brides themselves often point out that they forget to really enjoy being a bride. it seems we wait to be a bride and then a wife without really and fully enjoying the in-between stage - I AM A BRIDE. In this fast-paced age, when you have to manage to dream up and organize your dream Pinterest wedding, how do you not forget the most important thing?
LĪGAVĀM offers some tips that may help you enjoy the moment and status more.
It may sound clichéd, but brides all over the world point out one thing - before you start planning your wedding, enjoy the knowledge - I am a bride.
Give yourself time to really experience, enjoy and be happy about what is happening. When planning a wedding, one of the most important things to remember is that nothing in this world is perfect, and your wedding probably won't be either.
Labākais, ko varam darīt, ir būt elastīgiem, mācīties “plūst pa straumi” un ļauties notikumiem pat tad, ja tie nav tādi, kādus tos esam paredzējuši.
this approach will also allow you to refrain from unnecessary wedding organization and pre-wedding stress.
If you got engaged and became a bride today, it doesn't necessarily mean that tomorrow you have to rush to a bookstore or kiosk and buy all possible books and magazines about weddings. Advice from LĪGAVĀM - to do everything relatively slowly.
On the second day, you don't have to immediately decide on the wedding date, find your dream dress and create a guest list. Unfortunately, this is a mistake made by many brides these days, which ultimately leads to unnecessary stress and prevents you from enjoying the day after day.
One of the best ways to enjoy your bridal status is to write down your feelings, thoughts and plans from day one. It will be like a bride's diary, which will certainly be pleasant and nostalgic to read even after a long time, returning to the feelings of the moments experienced.
The LĪGAVĀM wedding planner will come in handy for this, which you can find here: WEDDING PLANNER
Another way to enjoy being a bride is to not forget that you also have a groom.
You are not alone. It will be your wedding, not just yours, so don't forget to indulge in joint conversations about wedding planning, the future and your dreams. Remember, being a bride isn't just about being a wedding planner, it's also about being your lover's wife-to-be and best friend.
Go on dates, enjoy being single, be happy every time you can introduce him to someone, saying he's my fiance. Your wedding day will only be the culmination of this wonderful journey (and mark the beginning of a new one), so enjoy every day of this journey, not just the end of it. If you will be a happy and rested bride both mentally and physically during the whole trip, then you will definitely be like that on the wedding day as well.
Also Diāna Urtāne-Zlidne, the creator of SILK & MILK brand, who became the wife of musician Kaspars Zlidnis this summer, says that being a bride should be enjoyed to the fullest.
"Kaspar fully supported my dream of a wedding because it made me so happy.
He also knew that for me, as a woman, marriage gives me a sense of security, confidence in the commitment to be together in both joys and sorrows and difficulties, overcoming them together. We believe that in this way we can understand the values of life much more deeply and unleash the noblest and best in ourselves. We can improve together much faster, we can complement each other, and together our strength is much greater than the sum of our individual strengths," says Diana. She enjoyed preparing for the wedding not only emotionally, but also practically, deciding to prepare a large part of the decorations herself.
“We met with my bridesmaids in half a year and made the decorations according to my idea, chatting and dressing my dreams in details.
I sewed dresses from light blue tulle for my beloved girls. I also chose to make jewelry myself, learning new skills and techniques with pleasure. As one of the first, I made a new wife's crown with pearls and shells, but I decided to surprise Kaspar for part of the beach party. I ordered a high-quality white kepon in Germany and decorated it with delicate shells and beads. Taking into account the specifics of the beach event, I clearly knew that I would go to the ceremony barefoot and decorate them with pearl anklets, I also made similar ones for my muses - girlfriends," Diana shares her memories.
Photo: VILNIS SLUKA, LINDA LAUVA , JĀNIS RATNIEKS , KRISTINE GRÍNVALDE