August is almost here - the month of weddings. Even if you are not yet a bride, but you are in a stable relationship , where you both see marriage as the next step, most often first betrothal or courtship . It is very likely that the feeling will come soon asked the fateful question, has not left you for some time. Maybe he already hinted, or you are by chance noticed a velvet box hidden in a drawer, or maybe it's just a feeling that grows stronger every day stronger. That moment is coming! American relationship expert and licensed marriage and family therapist Mary Kay Kosharoo explains that for many women, the time before getting engaged is very stressful. Thinking about what it will be like the atmosphere, how to best react and how not to show if the chosen ring is not what the bride imagined, can take over stress , which will negatively affect both you and your partner, so LĪGAVĀM compiled tips on how release the stress of waiting for a proposal.

Lets him plan

Sometimes women try to hint at what exactly the perfect proposal should be. It's good if he knows what you like, but unless you have decided to propose yourself, try not to interfere in his plans. Courtship is his chance to plan a day you will never forget. If you micromanage every one of them action, it will definitely create a feeling of distrust, which in turn will reduce motivation and enthusiasm. Besides, no everything is possible to plan - emotions and the magic of the moment arise when you let it.

Take your time, but enjoy

Getting engaged is an important step in your long-term relationship. Chances are, there have already been many in your life together important events, and there will be many more, so there is no reason to worry and rush. Enjoy every relationship you have phase and be present instead of rushing through life anxiously. Time before engagement never again won't happen again, so enjoy it instead of waiting.

Keep a cool head

Every woman has at least once imagined the moment of a proposal, so it is only normal to feel the excitement, but there is no worth playing out possible scenarios in your mind and racking your brain about when and how everything will happen. If you have imagined everything down to the smallest detail, there is a good chance that everything will turn out completely differently in life. such a fantasy inconsistency with reality will certainly lead to disappointment, so try to keep an open mind and heart.

Most likely, your man also feels stress, thinking how to surprise and please you.

Don't make this event more stressful. Anxiety can easily turn into anxiety and the unnecessary stress that can cause relationship tension. It's worth living in the moment and focusing on the needs of both of you, nurturing and strengthening relationship. in this way you will arrive at the altar much more harmoniously than if you apply pressure and give conspicuous gifts hints.

Relationships are the most important

Therapist Košaru recommends focusing on relationships, their development and overall harmony. Not your status, not how much the proposal will be grand, neither the size of the ring nor the size of the wedding determines how strong, deep and serious. It is the health of the relationship that is the basis of long-term happiness. Find time for each other even in the daily rush, listen to each other and seek compromises. Remember the importance of small gestures in everyday life and let yourself go to life and its surprises.

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Author of the article: ELISA RUDZİTE

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