Who else has a weapon not teeth, nails, knives, but... tenderness? And sexual energy is both a powerful and gentle weapon, given to us, women, by nature itself.
Body and soul therapist Artūrs Ćirps shares his observations and feelings about what female sexuality is and what its role is.
Sexual energy is misunderstood. It is a healing energy when consciously directed. It is the beginning of life, life energy and creative energy. Throughout the ages and religions, sexuality has been suppressed. It was taboo. But sexual energy moves matter. A woman's ability to direct sexual energy is lifelong. Use it or loose it*.
One of the ways sexual energy is expressed is intimacy. It is a very special process between two conscious people. Process without even touching. When we are together and able to create a third space where physical contact and mental space are one. And if children are born in this process, it is something unique, cosmic. Children of very high consciousness are born. Intimacy defines a connection to the earth. When a woman has a connection with the earth, hormones also work properly.
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Woman - earth, man - divine aspect. Man - mind, knowledge, vector, walking, doing, daring; woman - ignorance, surrender, trust, trust, healing, caressing, unconditional love, nurturing, nurturing, acceptance, feelings. Woman is the world of feelings, man is mind, thoughts, ideology, idea. The moment a woman gets into the same boxing ring with a man both at work and in society, the balance is disrupted. As a therapist, I see the effects in the body. If any person has a question, whether I am living life correctly and everything is happening as it should be, look at your body! If there are painful periods, cysts, fibroids, dysbacteriosis, inability to get pregnant, skin or other problems - anything, something is being done wrong. The body is the key.
A woman produces a project, a man realizes this project. A woman is the one who knows what the earth and nature need. When a woman has a project, the meaning of life appears to a man and the knowledge of how to realize this project comes. These are two healthy, happy people whose love is the result of children. Orgasm a woman has when she has a project of her own. As much as she has arranged the project of me as a woman, it is so easy for a man to realize her. In bed. In interaction.
Sex and sexuality are relationships with oneself. The basic task of every woman is to get to know and feel herself, to accept her body. Society and the idea of what a modern woman should be is a very big opening. At the age of 15-16, girls think about breast plastic surgery, they see on social networks and Instagram that everything is very cool. More and more applications and programs are being created, competing to improve the image so that we can remove bumps, make the skin softer... It takes us away from nature. But there are no mistakes in nature. There is no wrong tree in nature. Nature does not say: crooked fir tree, how beautiful she is! people today are on a rating system. Like, share. It is one of the biggest modern parasites that prevent man from coming back to his true nature, to nature.
The relationship with oneself is fundamental. When we have gotten to know ourselves, understood, learned.
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The more we get to know ourselves, the more we get to know the outside. Going to the divine, to the authentic, is going deep into yourself. Turning inward to myself - what do I feel, what do I like, what is happening in my body? The body is a unique platform given to us to do this - to observe every pain, every bump, to ask - what I am afraid of. A woman's wholeness and perfection lies in her ability to look into her masculine part. In the same way, the fullness of a man lies in his ability to look into his feminine part. If we get to know it, we are able to understand the other more and not be demanding.
A woman can wear the ugliest clothes, but if she is feminine inside, a man will immediately desire her. Nature cannot be fooled. It is best for a woman to come to femininity by getting to know her body, experiencing bodily practices - dancing, feeling, moving, touching. Everything related to the body and the world of feelings, not knowledge. A woman goes into spiritual knowledge - it means taking this knowledge and bringing it to the body. A woman's spiritual practice is nature, earth, body, feelings, sensations, movement.
A woman wants a ready man. But a woman is a healer. A man cannot heal. The woman must heal the man. But she must find herself first. How to understand that a woman has arranged herself? She no longer competes with other women, she sees other women as her sisters. A woman is the highest manifestation of unconditional love . If such a woman approaches an unconfident quasi-modo man on the dance floor and says: you can do it!, after three lessons the guy's shoulders will already be stately, but after six months he will be the toughest guy on the dance floor. If a woman is able to gently approach a man who is traumatized, a feeling arises in her: who touched me like that, who did not attack me, who did not tear me apart? Today it is called healing. A healer, a witch - she was an intelligent earth woman who controlled the elements, earth, nature, plants and healing.
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That is why women with such energy were never allowed in the church either. They shot everyone's corks. Such women have always been afraid - other women are afraid of their men. A man will always look to a woman who lifts the energy of the earth.
We can only attract to ourselves that which is as empty, as full or transparent as yourself. Therefore, today it is very relevant to address the topic of your small child. What to do when you have a hard time? Become a little girl - dance, get crazy!
The little child, who has not received something from his parents, demands it from others. If you expect safety from a man - who didn't give you safety? Because we don't need safety, we must be safe ourselves. If I am safe, I will meet a safe person. What I need from someone, what annoys me - this is what I still have to fill in myself. I take it as a lesson.
Relationship with water is very important in sexuality. Do I like the way the water surrounds me, I merge with the water, can I let the water wash over me for hours? Are you afraid? It can tell if there have been injuries. The element of water is sexuality.
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An intelligent woman who wants her man to be successful must maintain a true, pure lust where there is no demand that I will have in return for it.
Sexuality and intimacy are provided by knowledge. If the child begins to know himself bodily, parents should support it, not deny it. Children should be allowed to go to dances where cooperation occurs. Dance is a very good tool because the man leads and the woman lets go. The man gives the impulse, the woman catches the impulse. She doesn't have to think, she doesn't have to know the steps. The guy knows strategy and structure. It is the dance of life - we are together and feel like a whole.
A girl's mother teaches her about feeling her body, giving in, about what a woman is. Husbands and fathers should teach their sons about the female body, the erogenous zones. How important it is to build a relationship on the background of intimacy, on the background of mutual sympathy. No two women are the same. Therefore, the ability to observe and listen to breathing is given. The knowledge that sexual energy is the basis of all life. It's a foundation and it's not messy. Therefore, the role model for daughters is the mother, and for sons, the father. And if we don't give this sample, then society will.
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here on earth, as a human being, it is the ability to control matter - to take what I want and give up what I don't need.
Organs are reflected in the vagina. Men should massage their women's vaginas. A woman gains confidence when a man is ready to be patient instead of thinking about how to satisfy himself faster! Teach children intimacy. How to enjoy the process. But we are on the goal - to achieve. It drives you into stress. A man must approach a woman with care, because the uterus stores a lot of injuries, abuses, injuries. Not just from this life, but from other timelines as well. A woman's heart is in her womb. Every man should ask forgiveness of his womb. This is how we, women and men, can create a new pattern of interaction - through intimacy, care, respect, listening, hearing, feeling. No request. these interactions are therapeutic. Any sexual intimacy today should be like therapy. We are respectful and talkative. how did you feel What was it that prevented you from reaching orgasm? What happened?
Female Pelvic Gynecology receives no physical nourishment. If the child wants to come and live in the house, he needs the house to be warm and cool. A woman's gynecological problems are mostly related to her perception. The health of a woman's organs is determined by their mobility, and mobility is determined by how a woman breathes and whether there are any scars or adhesions. When there are adhesions, the organs become immobile and cause the organ to function less, which in turn affects other organs because all organs are connected. The way a woman breathes ensures the movement and massaging of the organs. And how a woman breathes is determined by how a woman feels.
You don't have to adapt your world to others. One must be able to accept the other's inner world, but at the same time draw a line where someone wants to deform ours. We must rejoice in the world of another. It is one of the foundations of the soul - we come to Earth to experience, know, touch, taste ourselves. If we want to know ourselves, we must become a child again. A child wants to know all the time. But when a person stops wanting to know, he slowly dies. The fulfillment of relationships and happiness is - how much we have come to know ourselves. This is called internal crystallization. We crystallize, take each of our painfully, untangle. A bright future is the result of working on yourself today. The future perspective is to be happy. How to be full of energy all your life? Finding yourself.
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*Use it or loose it - (from English) apply or lose it
Text: Ieva Simanovića
Photo: Kostiantyn Liberov