Is there a special recipe that conjures femininity in an alchemy lab? It has been heard that a woman's strength is in her weakness, but when we dig deeper, the feminine aspect has been described, sung and is still talked about in various cultures, religions, and let's be honest, women talk about it quite a bit. There are cultures in which synonyms for femininity include such words as sword, spear, flagpole . For the Romans it was Artemis, for us - Latvians - Laima, Māra. A woman has many characteristics and basic functions. One of them, without a doubt, is to give birth to children, thus also being able to create that special bond with the child. It's not just an emotional process, it's purely physiological, a lot of changes happen in a woman at the hormone level. A woman's consciousness is much more flexible than a man's. A woman is able to adapt, she is much more flexible and flexible. Women are the ones who can create or take away enormous energy in a man. Its exchange of energy and power is continuous. Of course, we don't see it, but let's be honest, we have felt likes, dislikes, special fluids and vibrations at least once.

You can feel a happy, radiant and calm woman even on the street, passing by her. Some call it charisma, others call it charm, I like the word peace.

But how easy is it to reach such peace/peace of mind? Where does it come from, how to grow it in yourself?

Does our peace always depend on external conditions and people or are we responsible for it ourselves?

In my opinion, if a woman herself has not understood who she is, then she will not be happy in the long term, neither in a relationship nor alone.

Because let's admit to ourselves that we expected that right away, right away, something would happen, change, make us feel better, but that something suspiciously doesn't come for a long time.

Femininity can also be cruel. It can be destructive. It harms not only the woman herself, but also everyone around her. An angry and dissatisfied woman is like a black hole that pulls everyone down. I once spoke with my friend's husband, who admitted that on days when his wife comes home in a bad mood, without even saying anything, the children slowly get up from the couch, slip to their rooms, and he himself goes to the office to work, thus giving time to calm down. So much has been said about what to do then - go and comfort her or is it better to leave her alone and wait for her to come? What to do with the other's emotions? Are we responsible for them? Undoubtedly, women are more emotional - outwardly, but as cardiologist Andrejs Ārglis said, men have this broken heart syndrome, women don't tend to have it.

Femininity is different - loving, beautiful. She is smart and creative, but can also be heroic and brave.

Therefore, today I would really like to talk about what femininity is, what are the qualities that only women have, which ones enrich them, and which, on the contrary, take away femininity.

Is femininity at all fashionable these days? Is femininity available on store shelves and in beauty salons? What kind of women are we and how do we take care of ourselves in order to be proud and satisfied first of all with ourselves.

INTUITION. A WOMAN HAS A “BETTER ANTENNA”.

Of course I have girlfriends. I admire them. We even have one magical photo where I look at all of us and each one is completely different. But we all definitely agree on one thing, that women have a very strong intuition.

WOMAN'S SPEECH

The word has enormous power, a woman should take care of her speech. Chattiness is not always appropriate. Of course, it's wonderful if a woman has her own opinion. The ability to listen is just as important. Understand the meaning of what is being said, because there are so many meaningless and empty conversations these days.

CONTINUOUS SELF-EDUCATION

When I discovered it, I started to get excited about how much information there is to learn and how interesting it is to spend time with yourself. Watch the documentary about Atlantis, find out what the rules of the tennis game are, read about how harmful glucose syrup really is to health, get interested in what art direction Claude Monet represents. And millions of other things. Find out, there will be more meaningful conversations and you will be able to teach your children more.

TRUST

If I were to ask do you know who your people are and are you a good friend? Do you respect your choices? Hasn't it happened that one friend shu...shu...shhhhh about the other? The feeling of being honest relieves anxiety and tension. If you are like that, then you yourself will become the most reliable friend and many secrets will open up to you, because every woman, including your girlfriends and you yourself, are like a delicate chest of drawers with a million drawers.

It is trust that opens them. And like attracts like. The laws of nature cannot be fooled there.

FIRMNESS, COURAGE, DEFENDING SKILLS

Don't be afraid to differ, even with your own opinion.

However, in order for the opinion not to be aggressive, there must be knowledge. Courage is needed these days, if only to stand up for your child, because society has so many instructions and comments that may not match yours on how to raise.

KINDNESS AND COMPASSION

A woman naturally tends to be gentler than a man. It is not for nothing that if a frightened suitor calls several times a day, then let your man talk, but if someone needs support or is happy for someone, then women find the words better.

SATURATION

Another story from a friend comes to my mind. When she was little, her brother did not take her in his company, which included other boys, but how she wanted it! Then she had an extremely smart idea - she started preparing lunch for the boys. Already innately very feminine. After some time, the guys came and were already waiting for the meal she had prepared. Satiety not only by thinking about it - eating well, but being at peace with what is, find an occupation that makes you happy, even try new recipes, so that you don't expect others to entertain you and don't get angry when it doesn't happen.

Find your own saturation, because well-saturated soil is able to bear good fruit and has the ability to grow and develop.

FORGIVENESS, TOLERANCE

The ability to forgive, first of all, yourself. Not to live in remorse for what was not done, what was poorly done, what was missed. As Mother Teresa said:

"If you live in sorrow for the past or in fear of the future, then you are not living at all."

GAIT AND MOVEMENTS

From a woman's gait, posture, gestures, you can guess how she feels, how confident and satisfied she is with her life at the given stage of her life. Have you ever met a woman or had a period in your life when you relaxed and calmed down. When you get to relax, sleep and pamper yourself. When such a moment has come, watch yourself. Your gait changes, your back straightens, your gestures are calmer and gentler. It is good to record and remember even in stressful moments of life.

A straight back means a freer flow of energy in you,

it is not for nothing that the spine also plays a huge role, which, for example, yoga pays a lot of attention to. And not only. It regulates many processes purely physiologically. Move, exercise, sit up straight and find your masseuse.

PASSION AND ABILITY TO GET PLEASURE

In the film "Amelia" all the characters of the film are introduced in an interesting way. Each one is told what he likes and dislikes. For example, Amelia herself liked to stick her hand into a bag full of grains, use a spoon to break the hard top layer of crème brûlée, and drag a wet finger along the upper edge of wine glasses. They are probably called guilty pleasure nowadays. In other words, we can call them our little passions. For example, I have such a quirk that I like all the labels for shampoos and cosmetics in the bathroom to be nicely turned towards me - like in a store. I also sort the backs of books "by height". There are a couple more but would share if I knew yours. These are the little passions that have come from nowhere and stayed with us for life. And it is not a vice. Being passionate is NOT a vice. A woman's sexuality is also a gift of God/nature, your femininity, which has enormous power, as long as you know it yourself, have been aware of it, have had an honest conversation with yourself and know when you feel full and when you feel empty. It should not be played with and wasted. Find out how and what to supplement it with.

OVER IT ALL - ENDLESS HUMOR

When you have found your inner self, then there are just as many and even more external things than increasing and maintaining your femininity. Oh, how I would like to pour myself a glass of wine and not go to bed for a long time, because I myself have remained interesting. what is your laundry Do you wear tights or have you discovered the magic of socks under a dress? Do you sleep in satin or linen bedding? What is your jewelry? What books are next to your bed?  Why do you choose that particular perfume? But for that, our conversation will have duplicate number 2

Good luck, girlfriend.