He is not only an actor. He is also a poet. And poetry is written sensually. “ Eroticism ” – so named Andras Bula's latest collection of poetry , whose title is equally mysteriously seductive and equally laid bare so that we feel what will be the right moment to enjoy it.

What makes a woman desirable and do men love differently? We talked about it.

The media tend to publish survey data about what is the most attractive or sexiest in a woman. Or such can specific parts of the body be divided at all?

I think survey data is part of the beauty business. Every woman knows what she wants to bring out in herself and what maybe not. Of course, a man can have a fetish for specific parts of a woman's body, then the question becomes relevant, whether a woman has it or not. A woman is a universal whole and a wise man sees it, and then separates the body parts become events to long for.

Each of us consciously or unconsciously pays more attention to something. Many women find men magical hands. What is that magical thing that you see in a woman?

During the pandemic, of course, the eyes. I can jokingly say that people's faces are missing. In my profession, the phrase is often heard: "Tell her to her face!" It's a big challenge to talk and make eye contact. Here I can go back to what I said, that if a woman wants to highlight a part or shape of her body, then of course I see it, but the question is why she does it.

But seriously – the power of attraction lies in energy, not in visual parameters, right?

The power of a woman is precisely in energy. I don't think you can stay with "parameters" for long. Although there tend to be different men and their criteria. I must say that I have not met a man who would say that she "took" me with her parameters. But the fact that she has a strong feminine energy, and I am.

If we are not talking about energy, what else makes a woman desirable?

Everyone seems to have something of their own. For someone, visual parameters, for someone, something related to the inner subconscious. to me for example, it seems interesting if a woman achieves something on her own. It can be in the field of profession or something where else. Then it is interesting to find out how she did it, how she thinks, what are her principles in life; must admit it's quite related to my profession because it makes you go deeper, but it's very interesting - how?

Qualities that a man will always appreciate in a woman.

Confidence, for sure, the ability to go deeper, because it will not allow criticism and reprimands to be expressed. The man does not like, and who then likes to be criticized. But if the other tries to understand and advise, it makes everything twice as good or common. And more ability to start talking when STOP! from both sides. Not all men understand the need to confess or make the first move.

Do men love differently?

Men definitely love differently and every man loves differently and no love is the same, just like no fingers are the same imprint. You will agree that there are couples that we say are so compatible, but there are those that we ask – what binds them so? Money? Status? But we are not there for them every day; even when we are around, we don't know about what they were talking about in the morning or fifteen minutes ago. There can be two people who have different views on love, but they match perfectly and are indistinguishable. Love is so different that it cannot be formulated.

Who do you think the femme fatale is? Is it a traveling or destructive force?

The fatal woman... She is the one who has been able to change the fate of a man.

It can be both destructive and an uplifting force. Both as a force that builds and destroys. Either way, it's a woman who is has shaped a man, for some in a short span of time, for some throughout his life.

It is said that a smart woman knows how to raise her man and motivates him to become successful, no matter what the term "successful" means to us would mean to each. How does the motivation that a man expects and in which there is strength manifest itself?

It is not easy to answer because you have to know your man very well. Similar to sports, it helps some to get if their criticizes in front of the team because he shows defiance, some need to be talked to, praised, others need that he makes it clear that he is the leader and everyone will do as he says. It is important to be together even when there are mistakes, because then the man realizes that he is not alone. Because when suffering a loss, a man's self-confidence sometimes breaks and he does not always have to raise it himself is easy.

The portal LĪGAVĀM is read by many women who are about to enter the harbor of marriage. You have been married for 15 years. Long enough time to evaluate what it is that allows you to maintain passion and interest in each other or pulls you out of the hole in more complicated stages of the relationship. What would you recommend to young couples?

One of the main suggestions is to talk… Try to do it. I think most men are less inclined talk to your woman like women. And,

women, - talk to your man, not to your girlfriends, about your man.

More information also here: ANDRIS BULIS

Author of the article: IEVA KRASTIņA

Photo: LIGA STEVENSON PHOTOGRAPHY, ERIKS UPENIEKS

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