Liene Uresin

"Don't spill the water", "don't drop the fork", "don't knock over the flower pot", "don't fall", "don't slip"... Do you remember how many things you weren't allowed to do as a child? And every time you accidentally spilled that drop of water, it was a mistake that might even be followed by a punishment. This is how we are taught not to make mistakes almost from birth. In addition, with each mistake made, our self-esteem level decreases and we blame ourselves:

• I'm not good enough.
• I am not valuable enough.
• I'm not smart enough.
• I'm not agile enough.
• I'm not strong enough.

And this is how we think about ourselves throughout our conscious life, lowering our confidence with each mistake. Growing up, we are oppressed by various social norms about how we should be, how we should look, how we should live. The pressure to be perfect and make no mistakes demotivates us and literally destroys our self-esteem.

But what if I said that there is another way to look at failure? What if instead of beating yourself up for failure, you focused your energy on what you can learn from it? How does it help you grow? How to turn this situation to your advantage?

Failure as a step to confidence

Imagine a world where failure is not a sign of incompetence, but a bridge to a more confident version of yourself. Think - celebrities, leaders, businessmen, presidents, athletes - everyone makes mistakes. What if all these people went into hiding after every little failure and stopped fulfilling their mission? The world would be full of intentions, not fulfilled goals.

Mistakes are an opportunity to grow

The ability to be vulnerable and the drive to continue even after failure is an important part of success. Instead of panicking, ask yourself - what can I learn from this experience? How can I use it in the future? Why is this experience valuable? See mistakes as an opportunity to grow.

Through thorns to the stars

Failures, which are often seen as stop signs, can serve the exact opposite - it can be a way to build your confidence. Think of failure as training - every time you overcome a setback, you experience a boost in self-confidence!

Don't be afraid to make mistakes - mistakes show that you are true, real and authentic! You are unshakable!

People think that to be confident in yourself, you have to look, dress, even smell great. In fact, self-confidence does not come from outside, but begins within yourself. External things will not change anything until you yourself are not satisfied with yourself and your life. That's why I invite you to completely change your life, regaining your energy and zest for life and boosting your confidence!

The 21-day confidence challenge will start on October 24th, where I will share a challenge every day that will help you gain confidence, overcome fear and become unstoppable! Learn more here !

See you in the challenge!

Article author: Liene Uresina

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