Thought and vibration. And that's how the name came about.

In the beginning was the Word - that's what the ancient texts of the creation of the world say. On the other hand, in this article, I will take you on a journey of reflection to realize how important it really is to what we promise to our loved one on the wedding day.

The wedding day vow , in which we express our desire to promise each other, is as old as the traditions of this world for a woman and a man to start a family. Over time, the marriage vow has adapted to the characteristics of the era. Initially, this promise had an economic meaning, but the expression of this aspect has changed and today it has acquired a form that provides an opportunity for oneself and the other half to discover the most unique aspects of one's personality. I will add that this has also been facilitated by the presence of different cultures and religions, so that the couple could find belonging in words corresponding to a specific nationality.

It is charming to see that this development, which we have created and experienced generation after generation, gives us the opportunity to express ourselves more and more freely, more and more safely.

this article is my invitation to you and your loved one to realize the ways in which you both can express yourself authentically: without frames and restrictions, just you - the two of you openly, truly, without passports and titles - bringing into the common space what is most important in your essence.

Promise or manifesto?

The nature of the promise, although deeply romantic, if you delve into its content, you can think about important issues. Everything, of course, depends on the values ​​of each couple, but if the basic definition is to build a sustainable, healthy relationship , then you must also take responsibility for the words expressed in this promise. Let's be frank - life is changing, we also change as individuals. Irreversible changes can happen in a person's life in an instant. Even though we are increasingly embracing the ways and possibilities of how to lead and shape life as we see fit, there is always and will remain the other side of life's coin - the one that is and will be a huge mystery of life for us.

I see it as the only thing I can promise myself and the other person is: "I promise to always be true to myself and you." The rest is out of my control.

What does it mean to manifest?

The word " manifest " expresses that by action and signs a person makes something clearly visible. Your life happens here and now. And this is the best time and place to take responsibility for your life and shape it.

In order to realize the very process of manifestation, with which you can clearly express the content and essence of your love, I invite you to realize what is the basis of this boat of reality, in which we sit and row. Then you will clearly understand what you choose to promise and what you choose to manifest.

The boat in which we sit and row

There is no shortage of opinions and evidence about the foundations of our existence, but the understanding that the universe is based on a unified quantum field is becoming more and more popular and recognized. In turn, our every thought combined with the arising emotion creates a signal in this field - concrete things, events and experiences manifest in its physical reality. Simply put - your every thought and feeling has a huge meaning, and they largely create and determine your entire life.

What does quantum physics have in common with poetry?

The words of our song "Dear Mara's room, full of small cradles; when one was moved, everyone swayed together" tells us that everything in this world is connected.

At the beginning I told you that a word is formed in the interaction of thought and vibration. It is clear from science that you manifest twenty-four hours a day; another question - do you do it on purpose? Therefore, I invite you to feel inside the answer to the question: what do I consciously choose to experience in my future life path together with my beloved person?

After diligently spending more than eight years in the process of deep self-discovery, I can say that the essence of manifestation works as it is described in science books and modern podcasts. I see the interaction of thoughts and emotions being realized in various manifestations of my life and the lives of the people around me.

Knowing this powerful basic principle of life-building, I came up with the idea of ​​a communication format that serves as a space for partners in a relationship to respectfully, freely and openly express all that is important and cares.

I have created a poetry format that serves as a support platform for the individual essence and expressions of a person. It became an expression of the art of life, which surrounds the partners' intention of living together through thoughts and emotions through feelings, providing the foundation of the manifestation process. this process of creating poetry allows couples to see what is important for them to create and improve by deeply listening to each other and to each other. It gives couples the opportunity to see that they are poetry themselves. We are all walking stories today. There is so much uniqueness in us that it would take countless volumes of books to describe and express it all.

this desire to create an intimate, art-based communication format arose from the experience that often beautiful and words full of inspiration just lie on the shelf, in book covers, under dust covers. I had a deep feeling that poetry should be given life, so that in new formats it could breathe on its own and breathe for people. For poetry to fulfill its mission: to inspire people to live, experience, express, love, care and simply be.

Often, in the hurried rhythm of life, there is no place for an impulse that would encourage you to reach for a collection of poetry that would bring a fresh spark to life and new authentic events could arise in it.

And that's how dedication poetry was born

The uniqueness of the dedication poetry lies in the fact that it is created in the interaction of the poetess with the couple. The couple (or one of the partners) gives their feeling impulses about their own relationship by answering simple but also deeper questions about the time spent together.

Questions range from mundane things like favorite color and season to questions about values in life. Then, after receiving the client's reflections, I immerse myself in the intuitive process of creating poetry. When the poetry is ready, it is typed with a vintage typewriter on hand cast paper. Next, it is wrapped in a chicken bundle with a golden thread, passed out in the bosom of dry flowers and lively chocolate flavors. In an elegant black design box, the couple receives a poem celebrating their relationship.

Each line is individually and uniquely created from what the partner (or partners) have expressed as important in their relationship. Clients admit that this is a wonderful way to see their time together in new aspects and fresh tones, to learn about each other what they would not have known, heard and seen otherwise. Dedication poetry is an everyday tool - to intentionally create and set aside moments in the building of your relationship, during which, with the presence of poetry, partners get to know each other better and create space for respectful growth together and individually, even if they have been in a relationship for a long time.

Dedication poetry can be a great gift during courtship, wedding anniversaries, birthdays and other festive occasions. I always invite couples to celebrate any day of their life with poetry. The more present attention and time a couple devotes to knowing their relationship, the more they understand and get to know each other, the more prosperous and enjoyable their relationship is.

Manifesto of marriage expressed in poetry

The essence of the Marriage Manifesto is derived from my Dedication poetry. In the conversation with the couple, receiving their impulses, poetry is created, which can serve both as words of promise on the wedding day, which are also expressed to the guests, and as a personal and intimate - known only to the couple - confirmation. In the daily rhythm, this manifesto provides the opportunity to return again and again to the self-expressed words, feelings and intentions, which are encoded in the lines of poetry.

What is it that you want to manifest in your relationship?

Are you open to the idea that your shared story started long before you met each other? And how unique it is that you experienced this meeting! Realizing how subtly countless events have unfolded in your life, giving you the opportunity to live the words "yes" here and now. this moment of awareness alone deserves deep gratitude for every detail of the events in which you are now so profoundly united.

The Marriage Manifesto in Poetry is a format for expressing your inner impulses, it can help you define, discover, explain, embrace ever new things and aspects of your endlessly glorious adventure called life.

Everything you have felt, everything you feel now, and especially everything you want to experience and feel. I invite you to open up and trust the rhythms of the poetess, weaving it all into one heart-and-soul touching poetry dedicated to you.

And so - it's time to live, so - for real, from the depths of your being.

Open to yourself, open to others, open to life!

I live in this form to know myself

and I meet you so that I can experience the contrast

what is still quietly breathing and living in the veins of my inner consciousness

word of honor - I would love to go to infinity with you tomorrow

there safely, every morning, I could call you my husband

bask in the afternoon sun and drink delicious wine

tasting life with you like a juicy and sweet orange

to move you with his touch and shy smile

longing takes me far, it fills the space of my mind

I see myself in such a summery - light, white dress

in the early morning dawn with colors passionately create joy

I know that together we would never, never feel hunger

looking out the window, I see you hypnotically fishing by the shore

such quiet, warm awareness already makes me deeply, deeply happy

I know myself absolutely naked, through you - and not for the first year

I recovered step by step, and now I do everything calmly, with pleasure

just imagine how strange our lives are becoming here

from long-forgotten paths, born on Earth

to wade through such a division in ignorance that deep sadness accumulated

then I meet you, and I know that I am always and always will be at Home

Author of the article: Lita Mežavilka / Living Poetry