Before I was married myself, I had a huge illusion that everything was so simple, beautiful and easy. Just because I'm happy and overwhelmed with my wedding, everything has to go smoothly. And mine, of course, will be everything, everything, everything....wedding. It seemed that everything was slipping into the hands and ideas were pouring out as if from a cornucopia. Not only in waking life, but also in dreams, I had already put on a wedding dress hundreds of times, ordered a bridal bouquet, talked to a photographer, found a car, a carriage, a horse and a million other things. For me, personally, the first major headache was the choice of shoes.
The idea just occurred to me that it would be interesting to conduct a survey/social research - something that brides, now wives, really "hung up" on when planning a wedding. And "hang" can be anything. I like the dress, I could buy it, but it's not your size, you need to find a seamstress. Out of season for your favorite flowers? Can't find a cake baker that uses dates instead of sugar? Can't find make-up specialists? Remember that you should definitely meet with this person before the big event, because the wedding makeup must be tried on beforehand. Must understand or think and see similarly. Sometimes there is simply not enough information, knowledge, so that everything works out no-or-no-ja-mi.
This time let's enjoy the beauty with our eyes, because there is no more room in the heart - everything is full of love there.
Flower arrangements, candles, table cards, outdoor tables, decorations by the sea. How not to get lost in the offer and choose? I really want to see a neat and understandable TO DO LIST. But what is not unimportant is to understand how much it will cost. What are the prerequisites in general for calculating costs.
We have invited Iluta Piternik from MintDeco to answer these questions for us.
Iluta: "If we receive a question - how much does wedding decoration cost - without any additional detailed information, we sigh with a smile - again... It would be the same as asking how much it costs to build a house."
So, dear ladies, when it comes to involving your men, the basic planning work and the answers to the most important questions should be put in your own pocket before going to a professional. And we give you a tip to prepare.
It is also not unimportant to choose a color that would create a unified impression of tasteful wedding planning.
Perhaps your engagement ring has a lovely gemstone. Whether it's a green emerald, a red ruby. Yellow sapphire, blue turquoise or diamond, you can match the table setting, table cards, decorations exactly to the tone of your ring.
Whether it is snow white, cream or any other color - it can also be a sample of what color decorations you will choose.
I knew a bride who was absolutely delighted with lilies. Already in the wedding invitations, she had written: "If you want to give us flowers, then we would be very happy with lilies." It was both a relief for the guests and the lilies served as the main flower in church, table and even wedding car decorations. As a result, there were so many lilies and all of them belonged to the young couple.
It is wonderful, tasteful, and relieving to draw such a master guideline through the several processes of preparation.
The idea process itself can also be turned into an adventure. Create an environment and a mood for yourself so that you can find surprises that you can realize later.
Breathe deeply, today I already saw the first birds flying. Spring is coming. May we all have a peaceful preparation for the hot wedding season!