The wedding day is the one day in your life when, despite what Copernicus claims and writes in the geography books, you you clearly know - today the earth does not revolve around the sun and the sun is not the closest star to it. today you have every right to this role.

You can celebrate life and forget about happiness like never before - laugh louder and dance safer... However, there are things that even you must not... Five taboos for the bride on her wedding day!

1. DO NOT POINT OUT STAFF MISTAKES BEFORE EVERYONE

No one but you knows what it's really like to be and most likely what you think is blatant negligence will not even draw attention. However, if you point it out, it is safe to say that they will notice it everyone. And will remember. All annoying bugs/defects are reported to a trusted person who can cool the mind to evaluate the situation and understand whether and what can still be corrected and make an appropriate decision.

Maybe it will turn out that it was not the fault of the person on whose head your anger will immediately fall cold...

By reprimanding in public, you can offend a person, which you will probably regret later. Be especially careful with the closest people. Remember that this day is as important to them as it is to you and if at some point they are not managed to read your thoughts exactly, don't be too sharp and demanding - they probably at this moment would have done anything just to see you as the happiest bride in the world.

2. DO NOT DO PUBLIC SCENES WITH THE GROOM

A little bit of fun is definitely a thing at a wedding, but it's better if someone takes care of the entertainment for the guests other than the new couple. On a day full of emotions, you can really feel anything - then, it seems, the groom does not pay enough attention, then, even worse, the chosen one is too friendly smiles at a wedding guest...

One of the brightest wedding moments of my childhood is when in the popular game of that time (early 2000s) wedding, the blindfolded groom had to recognize his bride by hand or leg, the groom made a mistake by choosing another the bride and the real bride made a scene as they ran away with tears in their eyes. What else happened at that wedding, no one knows I don't remember, but this scene is so vivid in my memories, as if it happened only yesterday.

Conclusion - if you don't want your guests to remember the wedding with a similar drama, throw away the superstition by the way - not every incident on the wedding day is a sign from the universe.

3. DO NOT CONTROL EVERYTHING YOURSELF

Enjoy your day the way you've always dreamed of it - letting go of the moment and seeing nothing but only her new husband.

Scrupulously following every nuance, every action of the waiter and casting his eyes on the table, checking, is everything enough, it's definitely not how you imagined one of the most beautiful days of your life.

Even if you had previously undertaken all the preparations for the wedding yourself, without calling in wedding professionals, wedding agencies offer the services of a so-called wedding coordinator, who will be informed about all organizational matters things and other nuances. Or entrust it to someone close to you!

If the last payments still need to be made on the wedding day, for example to musicians or caterers, prepare the necessary sums of money in envelopes on time and handed over to the responsibility of a trustworthy person. For all service providers in turn they must be informed of who to turn to in case of confusion or obstacles, so that they do not arise in a stressful situation solve problems with the bride.

4. DON'T FOCUS ON PERFECTION

No matter how carefully your wedding day is planned and no matter how much you want to think that everything unpredictable is foreseen, ex-brides say in one voice - something goes wrong at every wedding. Do not cherish the illusion that if as long as you follow everything and keep your eyes open, you will be able to control, prevent, correct everything...

What you can only change is your attitude.

Calmly accept what is happening and do not allow small things and imperfections to affect you negatively this day. Although, maybe you think that if you follow the weather forecast every day for a month before the wedding and pray very, very if the sky doesn't rain, it probably will. The only truth is - the happy ones don't wait for the rain to end, but learn to dance in the rain.

5. DO NOT DISCUSS WEDDING DAY SHORTCOMINGS WITH GUESTS

Wedding day - an intimate and very, very special event, however, whether you like it or not, it becomes public, on stage appearing to other people - wedding guests. If guests are invited, the new couple also feels responsible for to make everyone feel good, comfortable and have fun.

However, people are different and their views on things are also different, including what should be real for a wedding. Don't feel guilty if your wedding day doesn't meet all the rules and traditions or a wedding the table seems too austere... Don't apologize and don't waste time and energy stressing about whether all the guests your wedding will be remembered as the best wedding of the year.

Instead, enjoy the day and accept it as it is!

Author of the article: LIENE PÄLĆA

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